This place is only temporary. And you, you’re powerful beyond measure. Beyond your wildest dreams. Those things that you want, they’re all within your grasp. Those things that you tell yourself you can have one day.
You can have them. All of them. Right now. Every. Single. One. Of. Them.
You’re beautiful. You’re smart. You have this insanely big heart that you wear on your sleeve for all to see. It’s time to take down those walls and let everyone see all of you. Not just the things that you think the world wants to see. All of it.
So, what are you searching for? What is it that you want? It will find you if you’re open to it. Dream it. Feel it. Manifest it. You can have it all.
I won’t lie to you though. It’s going to be hard. But you have to choose happiness every single day. Every minute of every hour. It’s a new mindset. You have to choose to be grateful for the many many many things that you do have. That breathe that you just took, that’s something to be grateful for.
I know that people have been cruel. But that’s just a fact of life. There will always be someone who’s going to be a jerk. But with that same person, there will be five others who are kind, sweet, and beautiful. Find them. Hold onto them. Keep them. And don’t fight it if it’s magnetic.
I always had a plan.
First, it was college. And internships. Volunteer opportunities. Networking. Then a postgraduate degree. And then my first real job.
There was always a plan. Whenever someone asked, “what’s next?” I had an answer.
Until I didn’t.
I was destination obsessed because that was something to focus on and believe that when I finished this, this, and that — I would be where I wanted to be in life.
Oh, how heavily that’s weighed on me this last year. Nothing went according to my plan. I worked my tail off for five years … and it all seemed like it went for naught.
Okay, you did all of that. You accomplished all of these things … now what?
What’s the next move?
I have no idea what comes next and that is downright terrifying.
I rushed through all of those plans — or goals — and didn’t take the time to celebrate my victories. Looking back on all that I’ve accomplished, the person that I’ve become, the relationships that I’ve made … it’s truly something that I should be immensely proud of.
Taking the time to celebrate our wins, no matter how big or small, that’s not really something we’re taught or even encouraged to do.
I’m here to tell you to take the time and celebrate the fact that through it all (depression, heartbreak, etc.) celebrate the fact that you got up and kept going. When you’re so fully-focused on the future, the present passes you by.
It’s easy to get stuck in the human judgment that is what comes next. But please, take some time to heal and reflect on everything you’ve been through, especially the wins, and recognize just how much you’ve grown.
Celebrate that you got up and met your best friend for coffee.
Celebrate that you got out of bed.
Celebrate that you passed that really tough class.
Celebrate that you took a risk and told someone how you really feel about them.
Wins and losses.
It’s okay to not have a plan.
It’s okay to not have your next move planned out.
After all, some of the best moments we’ll ever have will hit us when we’re least expecting them.
For about a year now, I have been on a journey. My journey had one goal in mind — and while I’m still on it — it was to learn to love myself. Part of that journey brought me to the realization that I wanted and needed to share my experiences as a young woman in a wheelchair who aspires to work in professional sports. Although that could seem like me narrowing my audience, I think that what I share is something that anyone that ever grew up different could/can relate to.
I’ll share a little bit about myself as Chelsie did. In August of 2017, I finished up a Master’s degree in Sport & Athletic Administration. If you haven’t caught on yet, I love sports. Baseball, softball, football, soccer, basketball … pretty much anything. Some of my obsessions include my family, my cat, A Day to Remember, and Dutch Bros.
I know that Chels and I are so excited to get started on this journey together and we can’t wait to share more with you all.